i was thinking about people i knew - and me in that situation - see i would never get involved with my friends cos they feel like brothers and sisters to me - even louise (HALLO TO YEW) has said that. i think its wierd to even think about it with friends. coming from knowledge experience - meaning not actual experience but knowledge of an experience - i think sex with a friend destroys a friendship. i mean people who u r REALLY friends with u dont have FRIENDSHIPS with u have a relationship with. So really the question is do realtionships always have to mean sex and intimacy?
relationships can be defined in many senses. i think you can have friendships and sex wouldn't destroy them if you were able to keep them from being relationships. i think a harder question is: do relationships destroy friendships?
see i think that if i friendship turned into a relationship i don't think you could go back to the friendship part... especially when sex is involved. Sex is like the devils art - when considering the consequences.
i think that sex is only a problem because for most people it is an extreme expression of the relationship. and i think it is the relationship (depending on how emotionally strong it is) that ruins a friendship.
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actually very good question, but i think it has a very simple but complicated answer: it depends on the people and the friendship.
i was thinking about people i knew - and me in that situation - see i would never get involved with my friends cos they feel like brothers and sisters to me - even louise (HALLO TO YEW) has said that. i think its wierd to even think about it with friends. coming from knowledge experience - meaning not actual experience but knowledge of an experience - i think sex with a friend destroys a friendship. i mean people who u r REALLY friends with u dont have FRIENDSHIPS with u have a relationship with. So really the question is do realtionships always have to mean sex and intimacy?
err i have never been in a relationship so could not tell you there
relationships can be defined in many senses. i think you can have friendships and sex wouldn't destroy them if you were able to keep them from being relationships. i think a harder question is: do relationships destroy friendships?
see i think that if i friendship turned into a relationship i don't think you could go back to the friendship part... especially when sex is involved. Sex is like the devils art - when considering the consequences.
i think that sex is only a problem because for most people it is an extreme expression of the relationship. and i think it is the relationship (depending on how emotionally strong it is) that ruins a friendship.
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